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How to read a girls body language and when is the right time to ask a girl out?
Topic Started: Apr 16 2015, 10:11 AM (1,251 Views)
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Just as the topic says, when is the right time to ask a girl out?

Do i wait for her to give me a flirting sign or a smile?

me and g/f just broke up, she thought i was insecure and needy because i tried to talk to her about the boundaries of flirting.

i would like advice on how to ask a girl out.

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My Dear Melancholy,

You're over thinking things. How did you ask the girl out last time? It's actually not that hard. Just go up and ask them after making basic moves. If she rejects you then move on and find a different girl.

It's really not that hard. When I got asked out, we was watching anime. You can do it in all sorts of ways.

P.S. is there love in the air? Why is there so many love, relationship, and sex questions?
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try out this conversation

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To see if she's interested in you, just read her facial expressions, bodily movements, and check if her pupils are dilated (especially if and when she's making eye contact with you).

If she's smiling and laughing as your making moves and talking, that's a good sign. If her body language isn't saying she's in a hurry of some sort, rushing you, or waiting on you to hurry and finish because she's bored, that's also a good sign. And if her pupils are dilated, that's supposed to subconsciously indicate that she's at least attracted to you or aroused to some degree.

I think those are good signs to read and determine if she's interested and waiting on you to seal the deal correctly.
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Wait wait wait wait.

Why on earth would you ask a girl out after your relationship just ended? That, to me, screams insecurity and instability. Please don't do the whole 16 year old teenage love rebound thing.
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me too thanks
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It truly was a Shawshank redemption

I don't really think it's anyone's business that you want to ask a girl out so soon after a break-up. Many people do (and certainly people older than 16).

Progo summed it up pretty nicely.
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Just trying to shine a different light on the topic.
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Fairly sure I've said this in a different post before, but it applies here so what the hell.

There's no science behind it. Just balls up, make your move and ask a woman out. Like the queen said, it's not hard. You've obviously done it before!

Obsessive fan girl, let him handle things in his own way. It may not be your way, but that doesnt mean it has to be the wrong way.
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I suggest waiting till you're friends with a girl before asking them out on dates. Worked wonders for me. Also did well when I was online dating.
If you can openly talk to the girl, and she responds, then I'd say go for it.
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Professor Gohan
Apr 16 2015, 01:41 PM
To see if she's interested in you, just read her facial expressions, bodily movements, and check if her pupils are dilated (especially if and when she's making eye contact with you).

If she's smiling and laughing as your making moves and talking, that's a good sign. If her body language isn't saying she's in a hurry of some sort, rushing you, or waiting on you to hurry and finish because she's bored, that's also a good sign. And if her pupils are dilated, that's supposed to subconsciously indicate that she's at least attracted to you or aroused to some degree.

I think those are good signs to read and determine if she's interested and waiting on you to seal the deal correctly.


Nice. I will try that.

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Apr 16 2015, 02:44 PM
Wait wait wait wait.

Why on earth would you ask a girl out after your relationship just ended? That, to me, screams insecurity and instability. Please don't do the whole 16 year old teenage love rebound thing.


I dont know what is the 16 year old love rebound thing. I know what rebound sex is, is that what you're talking about?

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Apr 16 2015, 09:15 PM
I suggest waiting till you're friends with a girl before asking them out on dates. Worked wonders for me. Also did well when I was online dating.
If you can openly talk to the girl, and she responds, then I'd say go for it.


My previous g/f we got together because we were at the same high school. We been together for 3 and half years.

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Apr 16 2015, 09:47 PM

My previous g/f we got together because we were at the same high school. We been together for 3 and half years.

Sorry to hear that. Highschool mates rarely work out. I know mine didn't. I did find the perfect match just before ending college though. So it worked out.
Hope it works out for you too.
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Many thanks.

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How did you ask the girl out last time? It's actually not that hard. Just go up and ask them after making basic moves. If she rejects you then move on and find a different girl.


It was a long time, we were together for 3.5 years and that was in high school.
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I dont know what is the 16 year old love rebound thing. I know what rebound sex is, is that what you're talking about?

I'm making a generalization. A lot of times after a breakup, a person will immediately seek out another relationship. This is called a rebound, and, in mine and many others' experience, it never ends well. You need to figure yourself out and find happiness as a single man before you can make a successful relationship work.

To put this into perspective, I dated a girl for two years, and we had a horrible breakup. Immediately after our breakup, I began seeking out a new relationship. I dated a few girls, but it never worked out because I was too hung up on my ex, I was unhappy and depressed, and I was trying to fill that void in my life. I stopped dating, gave it a bit longer, and eventually found a happy, successful relationship. You've gotta give it some time.
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I dont know what is the 16 year old love rebound thing. I know what rebound sex is, is that what you're talking about?

I'm making a generalization. A lot of times after a breakup, a person will immediately seek out another relationship. This is called a rebound, and, in mine and many others' experience, it never ends well. You need to figure yourself out and find happiness as a single man before you can make a successful relationship work.

To put this into perspective, I dated a girl for two years, and we had a horrible breakup. Immediately after our breakup, I began seeking out a new relationship. I dated a few girls, but it never worked out because I was too hung up on my ex, I was unhappy and depressed, and I was trying to fill that void in my life. I stopped dating, gave it a bit longer, and eventually found a happy, successful relationship. You've gotta give it some time.
Sorry to hear that..

At first our feelings was true, but i think status got in the way, she's successfully employed by a marketing firm, and i was getting paid average pay being a accountant.

She broke up with by saying the classic "she needs time for herself".
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